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3 BOOKS I WISH I HAD READ THE FIRST TIME THEY WERE ASSIGNED

12/28/2013

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I am about to admit to doing something I could never advise a student to do.

During my time as a student there were many (many) books I never actually read cover to cover the first time around.

Now let's be clear: I did not skip those assignments. I read as much as I needed to in order to participate in discussions, write papers, and perform well on exams. There is a difference between getting through a book and reading it, the former taking a functional approach, versus attempting to appreciate a work in its entirety.

Of course, the ones I put off reading would pop back up, with another instructor insisting it was great literature and wanting a paper on it.

I was assigned The Great Gatsby by F.Scott Fitzgerald once in high school, and twice in college; I wrote all three papers without ever reading it all the way through.

The honest answer to why I finally picked up Gatsby is that I couldn't sleep. I was visiting my parents and in my old room. I scanned my bookshelf for something to read, and Gatsby stood out.

Oh yeah, I thought to myself, I remember that book was really boring when I tried to read it in high school. Maybe IT can help me fall asleep.

Instead I opened the first page, started reading, and kept reading, with an intensity I usually reserved for a new Harry Potter book. Two hours later I closed Gatsby, finally having read it cover to cover. And I was so sad it was over. Why had it taken me so long?

If we want to get philosophical, I might venture that the most obvious answer is that I wasn't old enough  to appreciate Gatsby when I was younger, and my high school English teacher was a terrifying creature who did not like students asking questions. So I had it in my mind that it was a difficult book, and a dull one at that, putting me off from reading it for future classes as well.


Here's what I loved about Gatsby and two other books, once I finally got around to reading them:

1 . The Great Gatsby 

Before Anchorman or Mean Girls, people found quotable passages in books. And Fitzgerald did this thing with wording that forced me to stop and linger over a line, enjoying how some arrangement of words could be so perfect.  
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Incredibly, it took me four attempts at the book to register that the only likable character is Nick, the narrator. Gatsby is pitiable and Daisy is the WORST. It's a love story where you know it can't end well, and you kind of detest most of the people involved anyway. 

Still, it's an infinitely likable book. If you like feeling melancholy.

2. Jane Eyre 

Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë is, without question, one of the best books I never read in school. 

Yes, there is an absurd plotline full of hackneyed scenarios: poor abused orphan girl is spurned by her meanie aunt and jerkface cousins and sent to live at an all-girls school. There, she is taken under the wing of a kindly headmistress, who sees to it that Jane is sent to an agreeable situation as a governess after her schooling is finished. At Thornfield, her creepy-but-supposedly-attractive employer, Mr. Rochester, walks around in a huff and alternates yelling at Jane and holding her hand in between tutoring lessons for his adopted daughter, a little French girl.

But Jane isn't some pushover. She doesn't just acquiesce to Rochester's insistence on getting married despite the fact that he, you know, HAS ANOTHER WIFE LOCKED IN HIS ATTIC. 
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Jane is awesome. She takes off for the countryside, and then rejects another guy's atrocious proposal, after he tells her that she is sturdy stock and would be helpful to him during his missionary trips. Just, ugh. This guy makes Rochester look good.

Here is what I really appreciated about this book - most of the time, the works that end up being considered "great literature" are just tragic downers. But Jane manages to deliver both drama and a happy ending, without sacrificing any part of the strong character she develops over the course of the story.

3.  Pride And Prejudice

First of all, this is NOT some girly book people assume it to be. Yes, the main character is a woman and Jane Austen's prose might be described as flowery. But really, for real, Austen was taking on some real issues of her time. This book is an indictment of Britain's 19th century property laws, that left women disenfranchised and dependent on marriage or the kindness of a male relative to survive.

Elizabeth Bennet is great. Her father recognizes that she is not like her silly sisters. I'm going to even go ahead and include her older sister, Jane, as kind of simple-minded. Not in a bad way - Jane is nice to Elizabeth, calling her "my dear" and braiding her hair by firelight and stuff - but Jane doesn't seem to get too upset about anything. Ever. Jane is kind of boring.

But Elizabeth doesn't just let Mr. Darcy's negging win her over immediately. And he is baffled? How come his insults-turned-professions of love tactic is not working?? Doesn't she know he is super rich?!
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Elizabeth knows. But she is thoroughly disinterested in signing her life over to someone as a pawn in a business arrangement between men. So she waits until she is sure she is marrying for love - a pretty radical notion for the time.

Other Books Worth Noting

Of course, sometimes I actually read the book the first time around. Among my favorites are To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee, Little Women by Louisa May Alcott, A Hero of Our Time by Mikhail Lermontov, and Andrei Bely's Petersburg. That last one is like Gatsby 2.0.

And for the books I wish I'd never read? Sherwood Anderson's Winesburg, Ohio, anything by Shakespeare, and Lord of the Flies. Thanks, William Golding, for the image of small boys dancing around a pig's head on a stick that seems to be permanently imprinted on my mind.


What was your favorite book you were assigned to read?

What books do you hate - or at least consider overrated?
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Creating The Perfect Study Environment

12/16/2013

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I need the room at exactly 75 degrees. There MUST be music, but classical only; lyrics distract me. My desk needs to face the wall or I'll be distracted. NOBODY TALK TO ME.

Have you ever noticed that you work better in some places versus others? Studies repeatedly suggest that people are more productive when working in environments of their own design.


Now that finals are upon students everywhere, ask yourself if your space is optimized for effective studying by considering the following factors:

SimPlify

I like things tidy. VERY TIDY. One time in college a friend moved one text book ever so slightly from my stack that I had arranged exactly as I liked it. I came back from class, stared at my desk, and said, "Did someone touch my stuff?"

Later, my roommate's brother decided to really challenge my sanity by sneaking in before I returned from winter break and throwing my books all over my desk. He gleefully watched as I tried to stifle a panic attack.

So - my point: it's not important if you like things perfectly perpendicular on your desk. Rather, take a minute to weed out anything that is just taking up space. Empty soda cans. A notebook from last semester. A year's worth of magazines from that title you never subscribed to but keeps showing up.

Simplify what's in your space by reducing items down to what you actually like, need, and use.

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Trying not to hyperventilate just looking at this.

A Room With a View

Interestingly, a study of college students showed marked improvement in performance when subjects had a view, even if they were just looking at a picture. 

If it's possible, set yourself up near a window. If your view is a brick wall or something similarly uninspiring, find yourself a poster or print a picture of a scene you find calming - the beach, the mountains, New York City, whatever. 

Tack the picture up at eye level. Enjoy.

Sit Up and Stand Up

I know your bed is comfortable. I know you want to stretch out on your coach for...just a...minute.... But the best way to get yourself into Work Mode is by forcing your body to be upright so that you can't be too relaxed. 

If you have the option, adjust your desk so that it's more ergonomic; set the screen at eye level to avoid neck strain from tilting your head down and a chair that supports a straight spine.

It's great if your space allows you to move a little too for periodic stretch breaks. My home office, which is presumably comparable to the size of most people's dorm rooms, allows me to workout in front of the computer. Even if formal exercise isn't your thing, at least stand up and stretch for a few minutes every hour. Activity can be as reinvigorating as a cup of coffee, without the extra dose of caffeine.

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Music

This is a tricky one. Sometimes I need absolute silence. Other times I want music, but instrumental only, so I am not distracted by lyrics. But I used to work well with one of my roommates when we would take turns making hour-long study session playlists, and listen to each other's music. That tiny element actually enhanced our studying experience significantly.

Get headphones if you must listen to music and your roommate can't stand any noise when studying. 

Consider ambient noise if you find music distracting but don't like it too quiet. You can either set up to work in a relatively uncrowded library, coffee shop, or study room. Or you can use Simply Noise, which just plays that fuzzy sound a radio makes when there's dead air.

Snacks

I'll go more into this soon, but your cocktail of black coffee, Red Bull, and No-Doz is - how do I put this nicely - a terrible idea. Yes, caffeine is a great way to stimulate your mind. Yes, I myself drank way too much coffee in college and grad school. But too much caffeine taxes your central nervous system, causing irritability and restlessness, along with physical symptoms like headaches, muscle tremors, and upset stomachs.

Take it from the lady who had an ulcer by age 24. Cool it with the coffee.

As for food, it's up to you to figure out if you work better by eating a meal before sitting down to work, or having food on hand so you don't need to leave your desk. I'm not a registered dietitian, so I won't presume to give you advice about what precisely to eat. But I will suggest that you pay attention to how certain foods make you feel.

If too much sugar makes you fuzzy-minded and lethargic, skip it. If a bag of Cheetos makes you feel like Michael Phelps going for the gold, I'm ok with that.
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This article discusses how Performance = Ability x Motivation x Opportunity. Create a work space that makes it possible for you to work, inspires you to complete the task, and gives you access to the same tools and strategies as other students.

I understand your performance might be mostly motivated by wanting a good grade on your final exam, and, in some cases, just needing a C- to pass. But it's within your power to streamline your work space so that your studying can be a little more bearable and infinitely more effective.
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The Supreme Importance of Following Through

12/11/2013

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“You are what you do, not what you say you'll do.” 
 - C. G. Jung
Have you ever had someone say to you, "We should get lunch sometime!," but you know that lunch is never going to happen? That's probably because previous interactions with this person have taught you that she makes promises without ever following through.  

Want an easy way to win the trust and respect of professors, roommates, and employers?

Do what you say you are going to do.

If you tell your professor you will email them a rough draft of a paper they have offered to look over as soon as you get back to your dorm - Email Them.

If you tell your roommate you will text her over Christmas break to ask when she needs to be picked up from the airport - Text Her.

If you promise your boss you will call her with some ideas for a project - Call Her.

When you follow through, you establish yourself as trustworthy to others, while inspiring self-confidence in your ability to get things done.


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Trust Me...

When prospective clients express interest in hiring me, I take note whether or not they do what I initially ask them to do. That is, if I say, "Email or call me with a good day and time for us to meet" or "Send me some information about your organization" and I never get that message, I don't bother tracking them down. 

If they can't follow through on that first simple task, I don't trust them to actively participate in the sessions or to complete assignments before our next meeting. Whether it's a student or a nonprofit, I don't want to work with people who are disorganized and undependable. They are wasting their money and my time.

Similarly, if you want people to trust you, do what say you are going to do. If you know you are going to miss a deadline and have a valid excuse, inform your professor in advance about the situation. Tell your boss if you can't make it to work on Thursday evening. If you tell your roommate you will take out the garbage, then bag it up and get it to the curb.

The benefit of following through over time is that when you cannot complete a task or fulfill a promise, people will be more willing to give you the benefit of a doubt and let it go, since they know this is a rare deviation from your otherwise dependable behavior.
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Form Good Habits

Set yourself up to be a person of your word by following through on promises promptly. That might mean setting aside 10 minutes after you get back to your room to send the email you said you would, or blocking out a morning to make a few calls. If you promise to do your part of a group project by 5 p.m., then you better be sending out your work by 4:59.

Every time you resist the urge to procrastinate (or skip the possibly annoying task altogether), you are further cementing following through as a habit. 

Doing what you say you are going to do goes a long way for seeing yourself as a responsible, conscientious individual who respects others by honoring your word.
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Act Like An Adult To Be Treated Like One

Age does not necessarily correspond with personal maturity. Rather, people who deliver on what they promise signal to others that they understand how to function as an adult in various academic and professional settings.

The college students I perceive as adults are those who respond to my messages in an appropriate amount of time, send me materials I request prior to meeting, and show up to our sessions prepared. 

The students who claim they "forgot" or -worse- "I didn't check my email" are hard to take seriously because what they are really saying is, "I chose to not make our work together a priority."

Every promise or pledge, big or little, that you knowingly fail to honor, is a conscious CHOICE not to follow through. This is childish.

And, conversely, every time you do what you say you're going to do, big or little, it is a conscious CHOICE to decisively follow through. This is called being an adult.

Choose to Follow Through

If you want to be treated like an adult and win the respect of your peers and supervisors, make following through a habit. It's the best way to present yourself as a trustworthy and dependable individual, in the classroom, workplace, and in your personal relationships.
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ANNOUNCING: Complimentary 30 Minute Sessions, Now Through January 5th

12/11/2013

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A Head Start With the Applications Process

Designed for proactive high school students, this 30 minute session will accomplish the following:

  • Deciding on the student’s location, school size, and program preferences
  • Learn how to navigate college databases and individual school sites to compare prospective schools in an informed way
  • Leave the session ready to prepare a list of schools to apply to after just 7 days

 Is Your Student Getting Enough Attention?

In 2009, the National Association for College Admission Counseling reported the national public school student-to-counselor ratio as 460:1.

Your student can benefit from one-on-one college counseling, which equips young adults with the research skills and tools to make informed, strategic choices regarding their postsecondary options.
 

A College Degree is the New High School Diploma

College degrees are more essential than ever, which means admissions are more competitive than ever. Some schools have a single digit acceptance rate. Learn how to apply the right number and kinds of schools to ensure you will have options to choose from.

After the session, if you think you can handle it on your own from there, great!

And if you want further assistance in preparing the most competitive college applications, we can continue working together.

Contact Jessica Peyton Roberts at [email protected] to sign up for a slot today – spaces are limited!


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Holiday Gift Guide 2013

12/9/2013

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Gifts on a ShoeString

This isn't a gift guide for what to buy the student in your life - nope,  there are already plenty of those out there. Instead, this is a guide for students who want to gift roommates, significant others, and professors without it being too weird or prohibitively expensive.

There are two steps. First, determine the nature of your relationship with the recipient and tailor the present accordingly. Second, decide what your budget is and find gifts within your likely limited means.
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For Your RoOmmates

First question: do you like your roommates?

If the answer is "No. They are the WORST," don't get them anything. Check.

However, if you are generally a fan of the people you live with, consider the following gift options:

  • bake cookies, fudge, or homemade peppermint bark, wrap, and distribute
  • offer to buy them dinner before you both take off for the break
  • knit a scarf, mittens, or hat in their favorite color
  • make them a CD with your mutual favorite songs (or bands you think they should be listening to)

[Are burned CD's a thing of the past? Is this the same thing as me suggesting making a mix-tape?]
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For Your Significant Other

First question: how long have you been dating?

If the answer is less than 3 months, may I suggest you don't do anything that could be conveyed as artificially accelerating your relationship? As in, maybe hold off on giving your boyfriend a $200 watch, or your lady a diamond bracelet. That's...a lot for someone you are still getting to know.

Instead, consider gifting:
  • 2 or 3 of their favorite movies and watching them together
  • cooking their favorite meal or treating them to a restaurant where the food takes more than 6 minutes to prepare
  • a little something you remember them mentioning they like or need, but haven't bought for themselves yet (like a new book from their favorite author or a big bag of their preferred coffee)

If the answer is more than 3 months but less than a year, any of the above still work, plus something that reflects attention to their preferences and requires a little more investment:
  • A bag of their favorite coffee AND a one-cup brew system, complete with travel mug
  • Cooking their favorite meal AND sending them home with a nice bottle of olive oil or a box of specially-ordered steaks

If it's a year or more, you're off the hook. You don't have to worry if your gift says TOO MUCH, TOO SOON. Go ahead and buy whatever you think your partner would like or needs, without too much concern about how the present will be interpreted.

By the way, if it's been, like, 2 weeks since you started dating, and perhaps you have yet to even define the relationship, do something anyway. At least a card. You're setting the stage for a potential relationship, and even if it doesn't work out, you won't regret being thoughtful.
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For Your ProfessorS

First question: Are you an undergraduate student with four or more professors this semester?

If yes, you can just gift those who you are especially fond of. If you're not even sure if your professor knows who you are apart from the other 78 students in your lecture, don't feel obligated to make him cookies.

However, if you are in a small class where everyone, including the professor, is friendly, you might want to give a little something. And if you are a graduate student, chances are you interact closely with most of your professors, and especially with your advisor. In which case, appropriate gifts could include:
  • A small office plant
  • Dropping off a tray of baked goods to their office
  • A simple card thanking them for the semester
  • A pack of their favorite pens
  • Their favorite food or candy (like a pack of Twizzlers)

Avoid anything absurdly expensive (let's cap it at $20) to avoid looking like you are trying to buy a good grade. You might even time giving the gifts so that it does not coincide with them grading your final exams and papers. But don't worry too much about that; most instructors will appreciate the gesture for what it is.
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It's The Thought That Counts

No professor will ever expect you to bring them a gift, and your roommates understand you are working on a limited budget. Don't stress if you can't afford presents for people on campus. A handwritten note goes a long way in telling someone you appreciate them and are wishing them a happy holiday.
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In Defense Of Handwriting Notes (Leave The LapTop At Home)

12/2/2013

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Notebook and Pen > LapTop

Unpopular opinion: You will generally take better notes with a good old-fashioned notebook and pen than with a laptop.

But Jessica! My laptop lets me type everything my professor says quickly. 

That's super. A pen and paper force you to listen for the important information, and only write down the immediately relevant parts, instead of typing everything verbatim.

Ok, but my laptop lets me record the lecture.

Cause you're really going to go home and re-watch the entire lecture all over again? Effective note-taking means getting what you need from class the first time around.

My handwriting is too messy.

I didn't do this, but I knew instructors who would deduct points for illegible assignments. Consider handwriting notes to practice improving your penmanship.

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Zero Distractions

I'm not a fan of laptops in the lecture setting because less than half of the students are actually taking notes. I don't blame them. If I'm near my computer, I'm checking my email. Maybe a little Facebook. I get it. 

The thing is, your instructor gets it too. And knows you're not paying attention when you're giggling quietly, pointing at the screen, and whispering to the guy next to you. There's no way you're that into the lecture. Which means you're probably not listening very much at all.

By ditching the laptop, you remove the potential for distraction, and increase your listening and note-taking abilities. By being more present in class, you're more likely to need less review before major assignments and exams, because you digested the information the first time through.
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Poppin notebooks are my favorite.

What You Need

Get yourself a notebook that is bound with perforations on the sides of the paper, so you can easily tear a single page out without destroying the overall binding. Personally, I always like the smaller notebooks because then I can slip them into any bag. 

I also like notebooks with a more substantial cover that won't get shredded over the semester. Skip the yellow legal pads.

Inside, choose if you want wide-ruled or college-ruled paper; the latter's lines are more narrowly spaced. 

Then, select the writing utensil of your choice. Pencil smears but you can erase. Pens can run out at inconvenient moments but are more easily readable. I'm partial to the Pilot G-2 05. I had to stop loaning my pen out during meetings, because people kept "accidentally" forgetting to return them.
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Taking Good Notes

Taking great notes requires active listening. You need to filter the information coming from your instructor (or elsewhere), selecting only the critically important points to record. 

Here are my suggestions for effective note-taking:

1. Understand the point of the lecture and keep your notes focused.
If your professor is discussing the events leading up to the French Revolution, don't feel obligated to write down what he says about the time he saw an opera in Paris when he was doing research for his project on early 19th century French theater.

2. Have a consistent system of abbreviations, symbols, and short-hand.
It's fine for you to make up your own note-taking language. Just make sure YOU understand it.

3. Highlight anything your professor presents as "really important" / "key point" / "you will see this on the exam"
This way, when you prepare for a test, you can take a guess about what kinds of questions to prepare for.

4. Put a question mark next to points or words you do not understand.
If your instructor keeps saying something about the "Glorious Revolution" and you have NO IDEA what she is talking about, but nobody is stopping to clarify, put a question mark next to it in your notes and look it up later.

5. Organize your notes how it makes sense to you.
I'm not going to tell you to color-code your notebooks, folders, and pens, or use those little sticky tabs to highlight important pages. You figure out what works for you. I probably looked sloppy compared to some of my classmates because I usually used one (yep, just one) notebook for all of my classes. As in, go to Physics, take notes. Turn the page, go to a History course, and resume note-taking. It made sense for me, but it might drive others crazy. Do what makes you happy.

Chapman University also has a nice write-up on note-taking here.
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What About My LaptOP?

Here's how you can use your laptop for note-taking: after class, go back and type out the highlights from the lecture. I'm talking 10 to 15 minutes, tops. It's a great way to cement what you just heard, as well create an ongoing study sheet. By exams, you'll already have a study sheet written up.

Emphasis on Effective

In the end, do what's most effective for you. If you love taking notes on your laptop and can't fathom taking efficient, reliable notes by hand, stick with it. But if you have trouble focusing when there is a screen in front of you, leave the laptop and home and invest in a pen and paper. Handwriting notes is cheaper, easier to carry, and forces you to hone in on the most important information.

Plus, if you're bored, you can sketch in the margins.
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