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Should I Transfer Colleges?

9/30/2014

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When I was 17, I had both the luxury and challenge of deciding among several admissions offers where exactly I wanted to commit for the next four years.

One school in particular presented a particularly attractive financial offer - as in-state resident with qualifying grades, I could go there for practically nothing.

I asked my parents, "Would it be easier for the family if I based my decision on money? Should I go to the school that costs the least?"

My father replied, "I want you to go wherever you want to go, regardless of money."

"However," he added, "You better make sure you like it, because once you're choose, you're stuck there for the next four years. I am not paying for you to transfer anywhere."

I took his words seriously, and picked Notre Dame, fairly confident I could be happy there (and I was).

That said, most of us - my father included - acknowledge that there are situations when a student would benefit enormously from transferring schools.

The most common time for transfer applications is after your freshman year, after you've had enough time to discern if your desire to find another school is warranted.

If you're struggling with the decision to leave your current university, read on for 6 reasons why it might make sense for you to change colleges next semester.

Affordability

What looked like a financially feasible option might change if one of your parents suddenly loses his or her job, you are notified your scholarship won't be renewed next year, or you are finding it more difficult than you expected to fund your own education. 

There is no shame in basing your choice of school partially on financial considerations. If you need a more affordable option, start looking at schools with a lower price tag.

A Need For Different or Increased Program Options

Let's say you head off to Julliard, intent on pursuing your Bachelor of Music in Jazz. During your first year, you enjoy your studies, but also find yourself envious of your friends at other schools who talk about taking a more diverse set of courses. You know Julliard offers a Liberal Arts major, which is an option short of transferring schools, but you can't shake the sense that you might get more out of a more traditional university.


In the event that you start to feel limited or pigeonholed into a course of study that stops feeling "right" - especially when it has long-term ramifications for your professional objectives - it's perfectly reasonable to consider transferring schools.

Desire For A More (Or Less) Rigorous Academic Setting

You really need to give the school a year before you decide the coursework is too hard or too easy. However, once you've completed at least a semester or two of classes that do not feel like a good fit for your academic abilities, it's fair to choose another school that might challenge you at your level.

(That said, don't give up at the sign of the first C, or even a few bad grades. See below on reasons not to transfer.)

Your Family Needs You

Sometimes extenuating circumstances arise that necessitate you moving back home, or at least being closer by. A family member may become gravely ill and require extra care. You may wish to be closer to your spouse / partner / child if you have them. And you might just recognize that your productivity is contingent on your happiness, and you are happier when you are close to your family. Look for schools that you return home.

You No Longer Feel Safe Or Able To Function At Your Current School

It's one thing if you are struggling socially to feel settled at your new school. I urge you to give yourself some time to adjust, and encourage you to investigate clubs, service opportunities, religious organizations, and student government if you have yet to find people you click with.

However, if something about the campus makes you feel fundamentally unsafe, vulnerable, depressed to the point of being incapable of functioning, or just plain unwelcome, these are valid (and important!) reasons to look for another school. 

This Was Always The Plan...

Maybe you always planned on transferring after the first year, using the school to get your grades up and then reapply to your dream school, which initially did not offer you admission.

Perhaps you wanted a year or two to save money at a less expensive school, before moving to the college you want to obtain your degree from.

Or you wanted to get your bearings at a community college and live at home, before striking out on your own, now more confident in your ability to succeed in a more rigorous program.

If this was your plan all along, don't get complacent. Transferring schools can be part of a larger strategic plan that ultimately contributes to your academic and professional goals.

And a few bad reasons to transfer:

A rough start academically
  • A C in Freshman Biology does not spell doom for your academic career. Investigate and exhaust your options for additional academic support  through your advisor, professors, TAs, and on-campus tutoring centers before throwing in the towel and declaring the school "too hard" for you to continue there.

Trouble making friends
  • I didn't make a real friend until the end of my freshman year, and I didn't feel like I had a solid group until halfway through my sophomore. Some people are great at turning new people into friends immediately, while others, like myself, take time to find the roommates and classmates they genuinely enjoy spending time with, identify with, and trust.

This guy / girl you like is at another school...
  • So you met an interesting someone over the summer and now you can't shake the idea that you two might be great together? Fair enough. Connect over Skype, email, letters, and planned visits during your breaks. Do not, however, pull out of school just to test where the relationship is possibly going.

Feeling overwhelmed
  • I promise you, it is completely normal to feel this way, especially during your first year. If you have moved some distance away from your family, left most or all of your friends, and jumped into a challenging university program, chances are there is going to be a period of adjustment. You might feel homesick, anxious about your academic performance, and concerned about your social prospects. Hang in there, and consult on-campus resources, including academic and personal counseling, if you need additional support.

Transferring schools is a huge decision, and not one to be made in a day, or even a week. If you can't shake the thought that you are meant to be at another college, entertain the notion, while investigating all of your options. Talk with your current school's academic advisors, financial officers, professors, and counselors about your reasons for wanting to transfer. 

Meanwhile, contact the academic and financial reps from the schools you potentially want to transfer into, to make sure you understand how your grades, money situation, and social environment stand to change.

There are plenty of scenarios where it makes sense to switch colleges. Honor your academic, professional, social, and emotional needs and make a decision that feels both sustainable and productive for you.
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College Dollars & Sense: Upcoming Presentation for Parents and Students

9/25/2014

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Are you getting ready to send a teen off to college? On Saturday, October 18, I am hosting "College Dollars & Sense" at Metro Park's STAR Center, a presentation for both parents and students.

Come learn about important deadlines and resources for the school and scholarship search, finding financial aid, how to write the competitive application essay, and factors to consider when choosing a school.

This is a great way to initiate a dialogue with your teen about parental expectations and your student's academic and professional goals!

Saturday, Oct. 18, 10am-12:30 - Students are FREE, $30 for up to 2 parents.

Register online at metroparkstacoma.org/star-programs or call 253.404.3939.

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8 Study Tips To Get Through Midterms

9/24/2014

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Want To Get More Done In The Same Amount Of Time?

9/8/2014

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You know what drives me absolutely, up-the-wall bananas? Wasted time. It's one thing to make the conscious choice to have free time, and another to feel like your minutes are being stolen from you. 

Some examples of time sucks:
  • Traffic
  • Long lines or waiting rooms
  • Errands or chores
  • Technology or technical delays
  • People who stop by or call unexpectedly

And if you're like me, sitting in a doctor's office for 15 minutes past my appointment time or being stuck on the freeway for 45 minutes longer than you anticipated can feel like anything from a nuisance to a gross injustice. We only have so much time in a day; we can't afford to lose whole pockets of it!

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If I'm being honest with myself, the infuriating part of wasted time is that eats into my carefully constructed schedule or my daily to-do list. But it doesn't have to.

We can't always avoid unexpected disturbances or delays, but there are ways to buffer our productivity even in the face of the unknown. Here are a few habits I adopted starting as a college student (and continue practicing today) that help me get more done in the same amount of time:

Bring Work With You 

I used to bring a book with me everywhere. In college, there's always some class you need to read for. I slipped a book or two into my bag and waited for "dead time" to hit, so that I could pull a book out and get through a few pages.

I used to read in line at the coffee shop, when the between-class rush added up to at least 5 minutes of waiting. I'd go to my next class early and do my homework in the empty classroom. Or, I would go the library if I had 30 minutes before I had to be somewhere to respond to emails or do a little research.

And I'm not the only one who does this - my advisor used to send me emails like, "Jessica, I read your paper while I was waiting in the Emergency Room. Here are my comments."

Even now, I tote around at least one managable task with me a day, in case some time opens up to do it. 

Have a Notepad On Hand

Ideas can come to us at the strangest times. It's no surprise, however, that if we have 15 minutes of down time, a paper topic might suddenly come to mind. Or you might have thought of a possible new source set to research. Or you remember a question you want to email your professor.

Take out a notepad and WRITE IT DOWN. You might be pleasantly surprised to find that those few minutes of brainstorming saves you time later because when you go to start a task, you've already thought it through.

I like a pen and paper, but you could also use voice recognition on your phone. Personally I feel ridiculous trying to whisper covert commands like, "FIX PAGE 3 OF PAPER," into my phone, but you do you.

Combine Errands and Chores

As I'm typing this, I'm also cooking dinner. Sure, that means pausing in between sections to get up and go stir the contents of the pan, but by the time I'm done with this post, my food will be ready.

We have an energetic dog who needs a long daily walk. I used to lament the lost hour until I realized how easily I could combine other tasks. Now I take calls while I'm walking (and find that the movement actually helps me be a more active participant in the conversation), listen to podcasts about some topic I want to learn more about, or set out with the intention to think through a specific project or problem.


I also have a 5 minute rule that works for me - if I notice something that needs to be done (sweep the floor, send off an email, take the laundry upstairs) and it can be done in 5 minutes or less, I must do it immediately. This works wonders for not letting little tasks add up into one giant chore list that will have to be dealt with eventually.

Anticipate Interruptions

Does your dinosaur of a laptop consistently take 7 minutes to boot up? Ok, then that's 7 minutes you can count on to do something else in the meantime.

Or do you have a co-worker who loves to drop by after lunch to catch up for "just a minute" - but it's actually something closer to a half hour? If you enjoy talking with this person, but prefer to keep working, why not ask them to meet you for lunch or a post-work coffee? Head them off at the pass.

If you don't care for their company, you can always either a) not be there when you know they will appear or b) greet them with, "Hi! I have 2 minutes - what's up?" It's ok to let someone know you have x amount of time up front and stick to that limit.


Traffic isn't that unexpected if you leave for home at 5pm when everyone else is also getting onto the highway. Pop in an audiobook, listen to a podcast, take the time to think through a work assignment, or schedule a call (if you have a hands-free device).

I know some people might think that this is the advice of an overzealous workaholic. Read for 5 minutes in line? Take calls while walking the dog?

But actually, I love my down time. I love doing nothing purposeful or work-oriented. And I can best afford to do this on a reliable basis when I take advantage of the minutes that present themselves, rather than wait for more time to magically appear.

We don't need more hours in the day to get everything done - we just need to find ways to convert the minutes we already have into more useful ones.
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